Friends, and Fidelity

For this week in class one of the topics that we discussed had to do with friends and fidelity.
There is a friends model and an eternal companion model. Here is a list of the two different model types:

Friends model
- cross-gender buddies without consequences
- flexible boundaries
- endless fun, few responsibilities
- perpetual hangout sessions

Eternal Companion model
- total allegiance to spouse or there will be consequences
- firm clear boundaries
- limits to fun; seemingly endless responsibilities
- perpetual growth opportunities

A couples relationship really needs to focus on the eternal companion model. This way the couple can be a strong couple and stay together with these mutual understandings.
I think what I have really learned through this class is the importance of communication. I think communication is where relationships are built and broken. Also, many things need to be discussed before marriage and boundaries need to be set. Because there isn't much time once a couple is married and starts having children to discuss these things and set proper boundaries. Following steps like having boundaries and not spending time alone with anyone from the opposite sex is really important in helping to prevent infidelity within the marriage.