Marriage and Immigrant Families

One thing that we touched on in class that I thought was really interesting is when we were discussing African American Families. Some challenges that they face are high percentage is unmarried (70%), lower education, often live in a violent locale, have extended family in the home, low income, and lower career aspirations. This is based on the average. It was interesting how all of these relate to one another. For example by having a low education, therefore the family would have a low income, which they would likely be living in a violent locale. Something that really hit me was that the single act of marriage could improve all of these things. I normally wouldn't think that marriage could have such a big impact but it really does make a big difference. It not only benefits the couple that is married but future generations down the road.

I also thought it was interesting when we looked at mexicans who immigrated to America. I never thought of all the challenges these families would have to face. I completely understand that the parents feel it is best for their children to come to America to give them the best possible opportunities they can. I just never realized how hard it is on the whole family structure. It must be difficult to leave a number of close family members behind. It is no wonder that many families may feel isolated and more alone. It is so interesting that families will change their roles and adapt to living in a new environment and changes within the family unit. I wonder how these families feel in hindsight. Do any families regret their decision, and decide to go back to Mexico? Also, how much are the children benefited by living here in America? Do they feel it is all worth it?